Anonymous asked: Thanks nikki for your advices! Im really gonna go for it and i already ask him if he likes my bestfriend his answer was a big no and when i ask him if he has any feeling for me he just tapped my head! :"> Thanks so much nikki! xoxo :* <3
You’re welcome.
Anonymous asked: I think im just gonna go for it! Cause when my friend ask him if he has any feelings for me his answer was just maybe... What does he mean for maybe?? :)
Maybe usually means yes. Good luck!
Anonymous asked: Hi Nikki! It's me the one who ask you bout the guy that i like that likes my Bestfriend.(Actually,this guy didnt actually said he likes my bestfriend. Its his actions that made me think he likes my bestfriend) Btw,This guy is sooo sweet to me and always teases me! How can i forget him if hes like that EVERYDAY? Pleasee help me nikki!
It really sounds like you want to be with this guy maybe you should just go for it. If you still want to forget him though just act coldly towards him when he is being nice to you. Ignore it and act like you don’t care he’ll move on to your friend who is being nicer to him.
Nikki
Anonymous asked: I cant remember how long its been, like 4 months of something since i found blood down there. And i havent had it since and i dont know whats going on. please help.:S
First thing is to take a pregnancy test. If that comes up negative then you probably just have an irregular period. You should tell an adult and if you are over 18 see a doctor about it because it may be something more serious. View that link as well.
http://www.medhelp.org/posts/Womens-Health/No-period-in-4-months—not-preg/show/32811
Nikki
Anonymous asked: Hey. Well my boyfriend and I broke up Wednesday. We got back together Thursday cause I thought I made a mistake. But we got back secretly. So we weren't gonna tell anyone yet. Then last night he went to a party. And he thought I broke up with him cause I got mad at him. But I didn't. But he promised me he wouldn't touch not one girl. And if he did I could break up with him. And he danced with 4. One of them was one of my friends. And I spent all night crying. I don' know if I should break up with him or not. Cause I think I'm falling in love with him. But I don't wanna fall for him then him do something worse. So i would really aprecitate advice right now. Thank you.
I would move on from this guy. Why couldn’t you go to the party with him? Why would he not want to do something with you instead of dancing with 4 other girls. You deserve a lot better than this guy. Be strong and find someone who will treat you with the respect your deserve
Nikki
Anonymous asked: There is this 10th grader that i really like. And i think he might know it. Usually i stop at his locker everyday afterschool, do small flirts like touching him, we look eachother in the eyes for a while, he calls me hot in some cases, and he asked me to go to a game ( it turns out that he was playing...). Then it gets out that i like him and then there is this freaking b**ch. She knew i liked him and now it seems like she just talks crap about me when shes around him. i cant really say anything to her because shes in 10th grade, and i dont have the guts to talk to her like that. But this one time i was going to my locker Her and my Crush were walking in the hall way together in front of me. She turns around, tells him something, and then He turns around. You should have seen this look. It was embarrising. i dodnt do anything because i acted liked i didnt pay attention. Now later on at the end of the school day i didnt stop at his locker because i was pissed. But when i walked by he was talking to this group of kids that did something funnny, like broke something and he laughs really hard and loud. i was thinking he might have been trying to get my attention. Then if we ever get alone, we have such an amazing moment. These mixed feelsings are driving me crazy and i just dont know...
So here is what I think. That other girl likes him. He really likes you. You need to seal the deal and ask this guy to be your boyfriend if you are interested. If you don’t then he is going to date the other girl and you are going to watch him get away.
Best of luck,
Nikki
Anonymous asked: heeey nikki ,
so my friend has liked this guy for like agess , and they were going to go out once but then they didnt and she still likes him but i dont think he likes her .
Now i think im starting to like him cause we talk a lot on msn and a bit at school but i dont know what to do cause my friend still likes him!
what do i do ?
Easy, if this is a long term friend that you want in your life forever then stay away from this guy. If you start dating him your friend is going to be mad at you about it and it will change things. If she isn’t that great of a friend then go for the guy. Keep in mind though this might come back to haunt you later. One of your friends might get the guy you have adored for years in the future. Put yourself in her position and ask yourself how you would react if your friend did that to you.
Nikki
Anonymous asked: hi nikki,
so for a while now i have felt pretty sad and lazy and just a huge range of emotions. i sometimes think i might be depressed but i dont know how that feels, or if what i am feeling really is depression. i seem to always be in bad moods and disrespect my parents, and most of the time i just feel like an idiot. i just feel so weird and most of the time i worry that i am waisting my youth away because im never in the mood to do anything.
can you please give me some advice? thank you
It sounds like you have some form of depression. This is a real condition that people tend to just ignore, but it can be as serious as diabetes or any other medical condition. You need to get a counselor and talk to them about it. Tell them you don’t want to take pills as treatment. Don’t let them test drugs on you, but tell them you just need someone to talk to. There are also hotlines you can call 24/7 for depression.
Don’t just let it get the best of you though. Ask for some help.
Nikki
Anonymous asked: hey nikki,
me and my boyfriend split a couple days after new years. recently, we've been talking like the way it used to be. a few days ago, he finally said "i missed you" . i was smiling the whole time when he said it. i'm loving every conversation with him.. he has said that if i can prove to him i've changed since new years (i've said some things that shouldnt have been said) he'll let me know if he'll want me back. i know he wants me back just as much as i do. but lately, some days he'll be all sweet, we'll joke around like we used to but other days.. i'll get one word answers, nothing at all or a total jerk. could there possibly be a reason for this ?
Yeah whatever you did to make him say prove that you’ve changed has caused him not to trust you. You shouldn’t have to change your personality to be with someone and if he doesn’t trust you it isn’t going to work out. It sounds like you guys have a few issues to work out before trying a relationship again. The only way to do this is bring up this issues in conversation and work them out. Tell him you will be willing to give the relationship one more shot but if it doesn’t work out there will be no more chances. Let him know you can move on then he won’t use manipulative statements like “well I miss you but you have to prove to me that you’ve changed”
Best of luck!
Nikki
Anonymous asked: Heey Nikki ,
Kso , i like this guy & we have dated. After like 1 month i found out that he cheated on me & that he used me to get to someone else . He dumped me the next day & his friends told me he was bored of me. Although he cheated on me , got bored of me , and use me , i still like him. He's graduating this year , he's got a girlfriend now and i KNOW i MUST get over him. I've told myself a million times that theres guys so much better then him but i just cant. It's like my mind says no and my heart says GOO . but i really dont know what to do . What should i do ?
Stay far away from this guy. Keep your guard up next time when you find someone you like. Just keep doing what you’re doing and wait for him to graduate. Hopefully he’ll move far away when he does.
Delete all contact from him as well. (Facebook Twitter etc)
Best of luck,
Nikki
